Tiny Shifts

Replace Yourself

We are called to serve, help, and work for justice. We dedicate time, energy, and resources to making our church, community, and world a better place. And, yet, our time is limited. Someone else will need to pick up the work someday. Someone will come next... won't they?
 
In this episode, Rev. Gretchen explores our responsibility for mentoring another generation who will take our place in the great work.

You’re on the team

Rev. Elaine continues our exploration of how we serve one another, sharing how even when we might feel we have nothing to offer, there is a role for us to play. When our lives feel too busy, joining the team and serving may actually be the antidote.

The Lifesaving Power of Mutual Aid

We're kicking off our new series, Terms of Service: The fine print of community. In this episode, Rev. Sean shares how mutual aid is a powerful tool for care and an essential component of spiritual life. Then, Rev. Dr. Sheryl Johnson joins Rev. Sean for a conversation about how the finance and stewardship practices of many congregations espouse neoliberal values and entrench white privilege and what we can do to change that.
2:13: Rev. Sean's sermon "No Masters, No Flakes"27:04 Conversation with Rev. Dr. Sheryl Johnson
Find Sheryl Johnson's Book here: https://www.fortresspress.com/store/product/9781506482965/Serving-Money-Serving-God
 

Bonus Episode: Gender Question Box

Rev. Sean Neil-Barron, Rev. Gretchen Haley, and religious educators Lauren Farley and Eleanor VanDeusen answer questions about gender submitted by community members.Some questions we answer are:
How can we center all the different needs in the fight for gender equity?Will we be targeted for taking a pro-trans and nonbinary stance?How are cis-gender kids affected by movements focusing on gender-expansive kids?

How to combat misinformation about trans and nonbinary people

In this episode, we empower you with talking points to counter right-wing gender propaganda.As Unitarian Universalists, we believe that we are all connected and that when the dignity and liberation of some are threatened, we are all called to act. So how can we respond to the wave of anti-trans, anti-nonbinary legislation that is sweeping the country? How can you, as one person, combat this wave of hate and harm? By starting with a seemingly small thing. Your voice. Your voice matters. Rising up and raising your voice can change a heart, a mind, and even save a life. 

Gender (Un)Stuck: Finding liberation from gender roles (+ an intro to gender creative parenting)

Even those of us deeply committed to gender liberation can find ourselves stuck in the sticky web of gender roles. How might we move towards greater freedom – for ourselves and for all of us? Rev. Elaine explores the strangeness of gender roles: the things that don’t fit, the things that actually (and perhaps weirdly) do, and how we might move with our anger, our curiosities, and our pleasures.
 
Plus an intro to gender creative parenting!

How do we become better men?

Let's talk about men. We know traditional conceptions of masculinity are outdated but there aren't any handholds for thinking about masculinity in a new way. So this week, we explore how we become better men - how we can invite ourselves into a more nuanced relationship with what it means to be a man.
We also tackle WHY - in the midst of so many pressing contemporary issues - we're taking the time to focus on gender.

Kissing God, Transforming Gender with special guest queer theorist Kathryn Bond Stockton

Leading queer theorist and nationally recognized author Kathryn Bond Stockton joins us to tell a strange story, with import for everyone. Why did a queer, trans-feeling, non-binary, going-to-be-gay kid need to become Evangelical for a spell so as to return to Unitarian values? Beginning with thoughts about what God is, this talk ties together words and kisses—for us all.Plus Rev. Sean welcomes guest Evin Carvill Ziemer to tackle our gender box. Ask a question at https://foothillsuu.org/genderquestions.
 
3:54 Sermon24:36 Answering our Gender Question Box.